Let me tell you a story that I have witnessed myself. One of my best friends fell in love with one of her classmates in the very first year of college. The boy was not completely unknown to her. In fact, he was her childhood crush. 

Throughout her growing-up years, she never had the courage to go and talk to him. But when he came to sit beside her on the first day of their college, their friendship instantly took off. And this friendship slowly transformed into love. 

In the final year of her college, when both of them got placed in reputed tech companies, and were fully committed to each other, they thought of taking the next step. They told their parents and asked them permission to get married. 

It was a fairytale wedding, with only happiness and smiles. But as they say, good times don’t last long. From the very first year of their marriage, they started having compatibility issues. They used to fight quite often and most of the time, the fight was because of misunderstandings. 

One such fight caused such a big issue that they even started thinking of divorce. That is when my friend requested a relationship tarot reading. 

Finding The Root Cause of The Couple Issues 

In this case, the tarot card reading helped my friend and her husband in understanding each other’s situations and feelings better. 

The reading provided insights into each other’s life and helped them introspect over the real reasons for the issue. They understood the issues, talked to each other about them, and solved their problems to save their marriage. 

And this is precisely what tarot cards do for any fighting couple. I have seen from my personal experience that 90% of couples fight on very small issues. Most of the time, they fail to explain their situations effectively, or their partners fail to understand them clearly. This miscommunication leads to misunderstanding. And misunderstandings lead to fights. 

This is where divine tarot card readings come into play. The best tarot card readers try to understand the inner feelings and energies of your partners and try to understand the real reason behind such behaviors of your partner. In most of cases, destiny tarot card readings can actually end up revealing the real issues behind your fights. 

But, here I want to state one thing very clearly. The tarot card readings will only tell you the possible reasons behind the fight. You will have to resolve the issues yourself. You can take guidance from the tarot cards, but the problem will be solved only when you will work towards solving it. 

Solving Relationship Issues: How Can Tarot Reading Help? 

Tarot readings can’t solve relationship problems directly. But a detailed destiny tarot card reading done by the best tarot card readers on relationship spread can definitely give a lot of insights about your relationship and marriage. They can be a tool for gaining clarity about your future. Here’s how they can help:

• Perspective: The cards can offer a fresh perspective on the situation and issues you are facing. They can highlight underlying issues or emotions you may not have noticed yet.
• Communication: A divine tarot card reading can provide great prompt for beginning a conversation with your partner. And we all know open communication can solve most of the couple issues. These readings help you and your partner to gain starting points for discussion. 
• Self-reflection: Sometimes you might not be able to see the truth. And what you are seeing may not be true. The energies revealed by the cards help you reflect on your own actions and situations, along with your partner’s actions, so that you can identify the core issues and work to solve them. 

Now if you are wondering what this relationship spread is, let’s explore them in a bit more detail in the next section. 

A Bit More About Relationship Spreads…

A spread of tarot used to do readings related to your relationships is called relationship spread. There are many different relationship tarot spreads, each designed to shed light on a specific aspect of your love life. 

Here are a few popular options:

General Relationship

They are used for general readings, which will give you an overview of your relationship. These spreads can be of two types:

• Past-Present-Future Spread (3 Cards): This simple spread offers a quick snapshot of where your relationship has been, where it is now, and where it might be headed.
• The Relationship Check-In Spread (8 Cards): This more in-depth spread explores the current energy between you, your individual feelings, the strengths and challenges of the relationship, and what each of you need from each other.

Focus on the Future

As the name itself suggests, these spreads are used for long-term relationship readings. They often end up revealing your probable future relationship issues. These readings can be of two types:

• The Potential Outcome Spread (5 Cards): This spread looks at the overall health of your relationship and what the future might hold if things continue on the current course.
• The Crossroads Spread (3 Cards):  This spread is helpful if you’re in a dilemma. You want to make a decision about the relationship but are confused or fearful of its outcome. This reading explores different paths you could take and the potential outcomes of each.

Finding Love Spread (6 Cards)

This spread delves into any roadblocks that might be preventing you from finding true love. They will also suggest what you need to work on, and how to attract a compatible partner.

Healing a Relationship Spread (6 Cards)

According to me, this is the ideal spread for fighting couples. And this is the spread I used for my friend too. This spread focuses on where you and your partner stand energetically, the biggest challenges you face, areas of alignment, and steps you can take to resolve your issues and strengthen the bond.

Tarot Readings For Solving Couple Fights: Things to Note

If you’re considering a tarot reading for your relationship, here are some things to keep in mind:

• Connect the Dots: In tarot, a set of cards can deliver multiple meanings. So, it is important to connect the right dots, and decipher the most appropriate meaning. 
• Focus on the present and future: You should focus on both present and future. Because what seems right in the present may not be the best thing to do in the long run. Reading the future helps us make decisions that we will not regret in the future. 
• Be open-minded: The cards might challenge your assumptions, and reveal things that might be shocking to you. So, be open to hearing them.
• Find a good reader: Relationships are a sensitive topic. You might not be comfortable opening up to unknown people or intimidating personalities. So, choose a reader you feel comfortable with. If you want, you can also contact me here. 

Some Possible Solutions to Couple Fights

Sometimes, change in the energy dynamics of your home can also help improve your relationships. Also, there are some crystals that can balance out the energies of you and your partner, and hence reduce disagreements. 

For example, you can keep crystal love birds in your home. Especially the pink Swan pairs made of rose quartz are often considered as symbols of love. They can rejuvenate the lost love in your relationship. 

To maximize their impact, you should keep them in the South West corner of your bedroom, Living room, or even work/study desk. Click here to buy one. 

If you don’t want to keep love birds, you can also keep photo frames made of rose quartz, and insert a picture of yourself with your partner in it. Click here to buy the photo frame. 

To Sum Up

Tarot card readings can reveal the hidden energies of your partner, help you find the real issues and introspect on them. They can also give cue points to start a conversation. But at the end of day, you will have to solve your problems.